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August 18, 2025

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Many women unknowingly make mistakes that can hold their bodies back. A physio expert shares what not to do and how avoiding these habits can protect your health.

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Nursah Katkak is a skilled physiotherapist, Pilates and yoga instructor with a passion for women’s health. Valedictorian of her physiotherapy program in Türkiye and her Master’s class at Swinburne University, she has a keen interest in movement disciplines that has led her to study yoga and mat and reformer Pilates instruction. With experience running her own clinic, Nursah specialises in musculoskeletal injury, Pilates, pelvic floor rehabilitation and sexual health therapy at The Alignment Studio.

Woman holding her stomach.
Pelvic health shouldn’t be ignored. Image: Canva

As a women’s health physio at The Alignment Studio, I see women of all ages experiencing pelvic floor and sexual dysfunction, incontinence, pain and prolapse. But, because of the stigma around women’s health issues, many more women suffer in silence, and not just during pregnancy and postpartum.

I’m passionate about pelvic health education, so here are five things I never do as a women’s health physio. I recommend you avoid them, too!

Go to the toilet ‘just in case’

Woman going to the toilet.
Do you really need to go? Image: Canva

The habit of forcing yourself to do a wee before leaving the house is hard-wired into most of us from childhood. But, take it from a bladder expert, you’re not doing yourself any favours.

I make sure I only go when I need to, not as a preemptive measure. There’s rarely a toilet too far away, and urinating when you don’t need to essentially confuses the brain-to-bladder wiring, impairing the latter’s capacity to hold larger volumes and potentially weakening the pelvic floor muscles.

This means you will need to go to the toilet more and, over time, you may even experience leakage or urge incontinence or develop an overactive bladder.

On a similar note, I make sure I don’t hold on too long either, as this is also unhealthy for your pelvic floor.

Forget to eat fibre

Bowl of oatmeal with fruit.
Fibre is your friend. Image: Canva

To keep things moving along nicely, I make getting enough fibre a top dietary priority. This means adding a rainbow of fruits and veggies, whole grains, legumes, nuts and seeds to my plate – plus plenty of water.

Fibre helps to promote regular bowel movements, softening stools to prevent constipation. This is important as straining to pass a bowel movement puts pressure on the pelvic floor, which can weaken the muscles and lead to issues such as incontinence over time.

A fibre-rich diet is also beneficial for the gut microbiome and heart health, so make sure you make good friends with fibre.

Skip my kegels

Woman doing pelvic floor exercise.
Whether sitting, lying or standing, make time for kegels. Image: Canva

Pelvic floor exercises, or kegels, are as central to my day as my morning coffee. When done consistently, these help to strengthen the muscles supporting the uterus, bladder and bowel, and can help improve issues like urinary leakage, while enhancing sexual function.

I practice my kegels twice a day, either sitting at the lights, on the phone or brushing my teeth. Like any exercise, correct form – lifting rather than pushing down – is more important than the number of reps. And it’s important to note that, while many women will benefit from kegels, if you have a tight pelvic floor or urinary urge incontinence, they should generally be avoided.

A women’s health physio should be your first port of call to assess your pelvic floor function and can help you activate or release your muscles, depending on your specific needs.

Ignore pelvic pain

Woman with hot water bottle on her stomach.
Pay attention to pain. Image: Canva

Women should not have to live with pelvic pain – period. And just because something is common, it doesn’t mean it should be normalised.

Pelvic pain is a clear sign that something is not quite right, so I will always speak to my GP or gynaecologist if something feels off. It can indicate all manner of simple and complex conditions, from pelvic floor dysfunction or tightness to referred musculoskeletal pain, nerve-related pain and gynaecological issues like endometriosis.

Lift without thinking about my pelvic floor

Woman lifting weight.
The key to lifting anything safely is to engage your core. Image: Canva

Whether I’m lifting a box, a bed frame or a barbell at the gym, I focus on coordinating my breath and gently engaging my pelvic floor when I need extra support. This helps to prevent issues like prolapse and protects my lower back.

Not sure how to lift your pelvic floor? Start by finding the right muscles – those you would activate to stop a flow of urine. Clench and lift these muscles upwards, as if drawing them towards your belly button, trying to avoid tightening your glutes.

If this is difficult, don’t worry. Strengthening these muscles takes time and repetition. And if you’re not sure about the technique, speak to a women’s health physio and we can teach you exactly how it’s done.


Do you consciously look after your pelvic floor health? We’d love to hear your thoughts below.

  • Very helpful tips and I definitely need to be mindful when doing any lifting.


  • A very informative article. Pelvic health is not something I think about often but after reading this, I’ll be putting some of the Physio’s tips into practice. I knew about pelvic floor exercises and fibre but I didn’t realise going to the toilet “just because” confuses the bladder to brain wiring. Makes sense after reading about it.


  • Thank you for sharing these very insightful and engaging tips, this was a fantastic read. Very informative and a great reminder to look after our bodies and be more aware. I didn’t do any pelvic floor muscles exercises after i had my daughter as I was busy getting into the rhythm of being a mum but i wish i had. Thankfully i am more aware of it now.


  • These are really fabulous tips here. One thing a home nurse told me after I had my bub was that kegel exercises aren’t just for during pregnancy but a life time exercise that should become routine. You’ll thank yourself way down the track. Also I try to abide by #1, you don’t want to lose any strength in that area


  • Well three out of the 5 tips tips there are things I need to keep in mind and heed more often. I do try to eat more fibre but I feel lacking and boring when I look at that enticing breakfast bowl. I need to up my game. Going in case is my next downfall and I can understand the reasoning.


  • Really great tips here to follow. They are definitely relevant to me, especially after having my kids! It’s so important to keep our core strength, something i often forget to do. I definitely have the bad habit of using the toilet before leaving the house as i think some public toilets are gross!


  • Some great tips!


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