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August 5, 2025

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Dental visits can be tricky for neurodivergent kids, but small changes can make a big difference. In support of Dental Health Week, we asked an expert about how to support calm, positive experiences at every step.

Expert banner for Mihiri Silva.

Associate Professor Mihiri Silva is the Director of Graduate Research and Interim Director of Research at the Melbourne Dental School, University of Melbourne. Mihiri is also a Consultant Paediatric Dentist and the Research Lead for the Department of Dentistry, Royal Children’s Hospital, Melbourne and an Honorary Research Fellow (Manager) at the Murdoch Children’s Research Institute. Mihiri’s research ranges from data analytics to causal inference and qualitative research and seeks to understand and improve the oral health of children.

Child high-fiving her dentist.
Dental professionals are trained to help children feel at ease. Image: Canva

Neurodivergent children often experience the world differently from others, and a trip to the dentist may present a whole other level of anxiety and fear.

‘Neurodivergent’ is a term commonly used to describe autistic children, though autistic behaviours vary considerably in their severity and type.

“It’s important to know how we can support neurodivergent children, or those with sensory challenges, to have good oral health, and this involves working to suit individual preferences as much as possible.”

Mihiri Silva, Paediatric Dentist, Melbourne Dental School

Build healthy routines early

Establishing good oral health habits like twice-daily toothbrushing, limiting sugary foods and drinks, and regular dental visits is important throughout childhood, and particularly for children with developmental concerns or disability.

“One of the most common concerns relates to the taste and texture of toothpaste which can make toothbrushing a really stressful event and almost like a battle at times. But there are now non-foaming and flavour-free fluoride toothpastes in the supermarket which have really changed this for some children.”

Mihiri Silva, Paediatric Dentist, Melbourne Dental School

In addition, parents can remind, encourage and assist with toothbrushing. Mindful that children love to copy adult behaviours, modelling good oral hygiene habits at home is helpful, with parents leading the way by heading to the basin twice a day themselves for brushing and flossing. Using visual schedules and rewards may also help establish positive routines.

Child brushing her teeth.
Set kids up with good habits early. Image: Canva

Dentists can help with dietary issues

Neurodivergent children may also have selective diets, and changing dietary patterns according to their needs and wishes can be challenging for parents and carers. But dentists and dental teams can be very helpful in this scenario, as they can partner with allied health professionals like dieticians to provide holistic support to reduce sugar intake.

A little planning goes a long way

In addition to the challenges at home, families with neurodivergent children worry about dental care because bright lights, loud noises, and smells in the dental clinic can be distressing.

Some simple, pre-visit planning and open communication with the dental team can often avoid unnecessary distress, such as parents providing the dentist with information about their child’s specific sensory needs and preferences before the appointment.

“Dentists are trained to support children, irrespective of developmental stage or disability, and have a range of ways to make the dental visit more comfortable and less challenging for the neurodivergent child.”

Mihiri Silva, Paediatric Dentist, Melbourne Dental School

This can range from simple things such as reducing bright lights and loud noises in the clinic and providing comforting weighted blankets, sunglasses or noise-cancelling headphones.

Practising opening the mouth at home, reading books together about visiting the dentist and talking through simple step-by-step instructions at home may also be helpful to prepare the child for the dental visit. Social stories, which explain the details about an event such as this and the behaviours expected at the visit, can also be helpful in the preparation process.

Child wearing bright glasses at the dentist.
Bright glasses and other tools can help kids feel comfortable during check-ups. Image: Canva

Focus on prevention

While Australian Dental Association survey data suggests that many parents put off taking their child to the dentist until a problem arises, seeing a dentist both early (when the first tooth emerges) and regularly keeps the focus on prevention.

This is especially important for neurodivergent children and those with a disability because it means that children can be introduced to the sights, sounds and sensations of the dental environment at their own pace, without the urgency of treating an issue. Sometimes this may mean just visiting the practice without any examination or treatment.

And remember, expert help is available

When necessary, the dentist may refer to a Specialist Paediatric Dentist, who has additional training in providing care to children with special needs. Options such as sedation and use of anaesthesia may also be considered, especially when more complex treatment is needed.

While families with neurodivergent children may face unique challenges when it comes to their oral health, new approaches to care, focusing on individual needs, make a huge difference, and a conversation with your dentist will get this process off to a great start.


What have you or your dentist done to help your child feel more comfortable at check-ups? Leave us a comment below.

  • Until recently I working with special needs children and there are some that `100% can not handle going to the dentist at all and its so bad that they actually have to go to hospital and be knocked out to get dental care. We had one boy who would have this done yearly.


  • I think these are good tips for any children not just neurodivergent ones. Finding the right dentist is so important. Out of my 3, 2 are fine going to the dentist however 1 has developed quite a fear. Having a caring dentist who treats him with respect but also listens and acknowledges his fear will be key to getting him through it while we also focus on prevention at home.


  • Finding the right dentist is such a personal thing. For example, my daughter and I have been seeing the same dentist since she was little. She is now a young adult and still goes to the same dentist. My husband, on the other hand, is not a fan and sees a different dentist.


  • I’ve taken all my kids to the dentist well before their first tooth erupted, simply to expose them and get used to dentist visits as part of life. My youngest has a huge medical fear including for dentist and we can’t even get her to sit in the dentist chair. The dentist can’t do much more then counting her teeth and applying a liquid to her cavities to prevent it from spreading. We go to the dentist every 3 month and she is on the waiting list for a GA again to get proper treatment


  • Finding a compassionate and caring dentist is SO important! My kids aren’t neurodivergent and going to the dentist was still daunting at a young age! Thankfully we found a LOVELY dentist who would take his time, be very gentle and give lots of pauses. He asks about school and weekend plans and makes it not all about the actual dentist visit. If only they were all like him!


  • Having a good rapport with your dentist is so important. My daughter and I have been seeing the same dentist for over 15 years and we enjoy our dental visits.


  • Does any kid like brushing their teeth. I have found teeth brushing hard at times. My daughter doesn’t enjoy doing it but we are slowly getting better with it. She tried to negotiate with me about whether she has to brush them. We do them together now and make it a fun experience for us both and this has definitely helped.


  • My grandkids had a wonderful Wiggles App that would time them brushing for two minutes. Now they set timers on their watches and it’s just routine. You do have to watch that they do it properly though. There are some good tips in the article and flavour is one. We forget how string some taste.


  • Kids can often hate brushing their teeth let alone doing it properly. Whilst my kids were still in their toddler years, we made it a fun thing for them when they had their baby toothbrushes! We would make it feel exciting. Then when the time came, it was a less daunting idea for them. We also started seeing the dentist regularly when theyre younger and they absolutely love the visits! We’re definitely lucky in that aspect.


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